Social Networking can be really challenging. We aren’t super tech savvy and when we were finally able to get on Linked In, Ed wasn’t sure what to do next. He thought he was only inviting just a few new colleagues and work contacts but what he actually did was inadvertently invite EVERYONE we had ever sent an email to, including Deb’s 88-year-old mother.
We only knew this had happened when we started to receive hundreds of ‘accepts’ from everyone you can dream of, including three people Ed used to know but, due to difficult circumstances, he no longer had anything to do with. In Buddhist terms these people are simply known as the enemy – anyone you had a hard time with or who is having a difficult time with you.
Our friend Kiri roared with laughter when we told her. She said it also happen to her and happens more often than we may realize. “What many of us fail to realize is that with a simple click of the mouse our worlds open up far and wide and, along with long lost friends, people we have consciously chosen to close out of our lives come tumbling back in. Suddenly we are faced with having to reject them again or to open up and accept their online offerings of friendship.”